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This photo was taken by our daughter, Sarah Timmons, or my wife, depending on who you ask. We were in Rehoboth Beach, DE on Easter Sunday, 2011.


Several years ago, on the way home from a family vacation, I picked up a notebook and quickly recorded an incident that had occurred involving our son. Eventually, I used that story to illustrate something about my spiritual walk as a believer in Christ. Thus began a deliberate attempt to document the significance of everyday events. Almost any ordinary circumstance in daily life can become fodder for another story. This, almost by definition, lends itself to a blog.

Of course, many of the entries here are just ordinary diary style stuff... the stuff of ordinary blogs. Good grief, I don't want to be ordinary.


Sunday, May 25, 2025

Milestones

As of yesterday, our nest is officially empty.

This marks the end of an era for Tina and me.  Since our marriage in 1992, we now have four children, which currently includes two marriages, five grandchildren, three Bachelors Degrees, and one Masters Degree.

Our youngest, Asher, just graduated from the University of Delaware, and is about to move back up to Newark, DE to start his first job.

Our empty nest has been coming slowly, and has been nothing like I anticipated. Yes, it's inevitable, it's healthy, it's the natural progression of our lives.  But there is a paradox. The years since having our first child have been the most enjoyable, the most rewarding, the most full of life, and the most exhausting years of my life. I am not glad to have those years behind me, not relieved, and not looking forward to the quiet. Yet I am completely satisfied when I consider all that has happened and where we all are now.

But I digress.  We have watched Asher grow exponentially in these past four years.  He has challenged himself, pressed through difficulties, and devoted himself to various things too numerous to mention.  He has determined to be a good friend to others, to learn his craft, and to press into his faith. It has been our pleasure to walk with him these past four years.

We were prepared for Asher to move away to another state, given his degree in Wildlife Ecology and Conservation.  Much to our delight, he elected to stay in Delaware, and will be helping to manage two Delaware Fish and Wildlife Preserves here in Delaware - Augustine and Cedar Swamp Wildlife Areas - both in New Castle County.

 

 

This past Spring has been one of planning for the future for Asher.  As a typical college senior, he's had to finish his last classes, find a starting place in his career, find a place to live, and find a truck so he doesn't have to rely just on his motorcycle for transportation. (still looking for a 4Runner!).



 

Asher will only be an hour and 45 minutes away... close enough for a Saturday morning breakfast date.