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This photo was taken by our daughter, Sarah Timmons, or my wife, depending on who you ask. We were in Rehoboth Beach, DE on Easter Sunday, 2011.


Several years ago, on the way home from a family vacation, I picked up a notebook and quickly recorded an incident that had occurred involving our son. Eventually, I used that story to illustrate something about my spiritual walk as a believer in Christ. Thus began a deliberate attempt to document the significance of everyday events. Almost any ordinary circumstance in daily life can become fodder for another story. This, almost by definition, lends itself to a blog.

Of course, many of the entries here are just ordinary diary style stuff... the stuff of ordinary blogs. Good grief, I don't want to be ordinary.


Saturday, March 6, 2021

Lessons from Pole Vaulting


On March 3, 2021, Asher competed in the Delaware Interscholastic Athletic Association Indoor Track & Field Championships in Dover, Delaware.  His event is pole vaulting.  This is Asher's fourth year of pole vaulting - four years of Spring Track and Field, and two years of Winter Track and Field.  

There's a backstory involving Asher's involvement in the sport. When he first decided he wanted to do something in Track and Field, he had a few friends who pole vaulted, and encouraged Asher to try it.  It seems that once he did, he was hooked.  He enjoyed the challenge, but just as much, I suppose he enjoyed being with these friends and working together, and work he did.

Nothing about pole vaulting is natural, the best I can tell.  Sprinters and distance runners have basically been doing that their whole lives.  No one has tried to hurl themselves over a bar using a pole in their growing up years, to my recollection. There are a great number of things that must happen in rapid succession to get over the bar, including laying back upside down in a very unnatural position as the pole bends beneath your weight.  There's no shortcut to success - just jump after jump. So Asher jumped, and he jumped.

This past winter, Asher decided it would be good to build some upper body strength, so he started working out with a different friend who he worked with during the summer.  Night after night he skipped dinner and drove to the friend's home, and they worked together to build strength.  Meanwhile, they built their relationship. He would eat alone after getting home.

His friends graduated last year, so for Winter track, Asher was on his own mostly as he trained.  Only he wasn't always alone, as those friends would show up to coach him.  As the seasoned Senior pole vaulter, he did what he could to help younger students as they learned the art.  I don't think anyone had to tell him to do this... he took it upon himself.  

This is the beauty of sports - it isn't so much the act itself, it is the effort put forth, the perseverance, the relationships built.  It is why colleges love to see students who have participated in athletics - they understand that these students have proven themselves to be willing to push, to work with others, and to value friendship.

The backstory to Asher's pole vaulting is this - it is  mostly about relationships. 

On March 3, 2021, Asher placed first.  He became the DIAA State Champion, and was named to the Indoor Track and Field 1st All-State Team.